"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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NickBe

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Since he has nothing to lose he might aswell give his number
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dude i'm working on weekends as a bartender,
(yes i did go to bartending school )
well
1) don't go alot of times to ask her for a drink. you'll bore her, she's busy making money.
2) go for the kill almost when you're about to bounce to another place, always have a back-up place to go. don't complimen t too much OK.
ASk her for a 007 drink, you know:
absolut orange citron vodka, orange juice, 7 up = 007

3) follow LIl devil little conversation.practice to get it right then make eye contact, when you trying out the drink in front of her.
"Hmm, it's.... refreshing, nice , you didn't undercount "
(you building anticipation , she will look at you when you say that )


4) Ask her then "Hey ,I gotta go my friend's hosting a party at this other club thanks for the double 0, then do the deangelo technique of turning her digits, no email and tell her "maybe get together after work and maybe you'll get lucky ... share recipes." (you breaking the ice barrier bartender-customer and not being intimidated by her, by then she'll be curious who you are, keeping her Dangling...oohh)

5) You can modify this OK doesn't have to be word for word, ****y smile and eye contact After you get the drink will determine .

Guys what do think?
 
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i went back to the bar she was at. but i was kind of fvcked up. she knows two of my roomates. one was talking to her and we ordered a drink but i just sat at the bar with my back sort of towards her.

as for giving my number ive done it before and the girl usually calls never tried it with a bartender but will try it ill probably just buy a drink say whats up flirt real fast shell bring back the tab ill write my number on a coaster and write call me.
 
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