"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Need Help Gaining!

wildinthenorth

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Here's the "skinny", I am! I am 6 foot 3, and 165. I just recentley quit smoking, so I am planning to gain weight, but I want to get in shape at the same time.
Anyone have any good diet ideas or suggestions? I have been told to take dessicated liver tablets, but I need to work out. I bought a good weight bench and free weights, I have some idea what I am doing with lifting weights, but again any help or suggestions, would be appreciated.
By the way, I just had my BYI checked and it was 6%.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wildinthenorth

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Thanks for the link, it answered a lot of questions! Does anyone know what a helathy weight is for a person who is 6 foot 3? I have a target weight of about 185.
 

Charm

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200lbs and muscular is a decent weight for that height. I'm 5'9 and my target is 205.
 

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healthy weight charts are a waste, esp. b/c they do not take into account the benefits of muscle mass. rough guidelines: if you can't see your ribs w/o sucking in, you're heavy enough. if you don't have anything hanging over your belt, you're not too heavy. in between are a variety of healthy builds.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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