"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Need Help Gaining!

wildinthenorth

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Here's the "skinny", I am! I am 6 foot 3, and 165. I just recentley quit smoking, so I am planning to gain weight, but I want to get in shape at the same time.
Anyone have any good diet ideas or suggestions? I have been told to take dessicated liver tablets, but I need to work out. I bought a good weight bench and free weights, I have some idea what I am doing with lifting weights, but again any help or suggestions, would be appreciated.
By the way, I just had my BYI checked and it was 6%.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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wildinthenorth

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Thanks for the link, it answered a lot of questions! Does anyone know what a helathy weight is for a person who is 6 foot 3? I have a target weight of about 185.
 

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200lbs and muscular is a decent weight for that height. I'm 5'9 and my target is 205.
 

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healthy weight charts are a waste, esp. b/c they do not take into account the benefits of muscle mass. rough guidelines: if you can't see your ribs w/o sucking in, you're heavy enough. if you don't have anything hanging over your belt, you're not too heavy. in between are a variety of healthy builds.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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