"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wildinthenorth

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Here's the "skinny", I am! I am 6 foot 3, and 165. I just recentley quit smoking, so I am planning to gain weight, but I want to get in shape at the same time.
Anyone have any good diet ideas or suggestions? I have been told to take dessicated liver tablets, but I need to work out. I bought a good weight bench and free weights, I have some idea what I am doing with lifting weights, but again any help or suggestions, would be appreciated.
By the way, I just had my BYI checked and it was 6%.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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wildinthenorth

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Thanks for the link, it answered a lot of questions! Does anyone know what a helathy weight is for a person who is 6 foot 3? I have a target weight of about 185.
 

Charm

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200lbs and muscular is a decent weight for that height. I'm 5'9 and my target is 205.
 

Throttle

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healthy weight charts are a waste, esp. b/c they do not take into account the benefits of muscle mass. rough guidelines: if you can't see your ribs w/o sucking in, you're heavy enough. if you don't have anything hanging over your belt, you're not too heavy. in between are a variety of healthy builds.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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