Leprechaun2013
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She's banging the friend.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
need help .. fvcked tup bad
- Thread starter Jair213
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
RagingBalls
Senior Don Juan
Jair, it might not happen right now but she'll realize how selfish she had been for her action/reaction. She could've called you and not wait for your call/text. Where's her concern for you when all she did was wait? And now you are being "punished" for not living to her expectations regardless of what happens to you.
It's her way of holding you by the neck and it looks like you fall into that emotional trap.
All i know is, when your girl do that to you, you are not supposed to be worried, you are supposed to be disappointed by her actions, you might get a little mad about it too, because she only thinks about herself.
It's her way of holding you by the neck and it looks like you fall into that emotional trap.
All i know is, when your girl do that to you, you are not supposed to be worried, you are supposed to be disappointed by her actions, you might get a little mad about it too, because she only thinks about herself.
VikingKing
Banned
Man. You need to just let this go and move forward. Cut contact, just do it, action.
When you cut contact, she will come running, but it will be for ego validation.
When you cut contact, she will come running, but it will be for ego validation.
As you reminded us OP, it's a long distance relationship. So you're not getting regular sex with this girl, you're missing out on sex with other girls (assuming you're being faithful which I hope for your sake you're not) and clearly this girl has a princessy, spoiled personality
So what exactly are you getting from this relationship?
So what exactly are you getting from this relationship?
Jair213
Master Don Juan
Broke up with her. I told her that things weren't working out.
And other things.
Last thing she said was this
Her. You don't even say whatt you think, not even for things like this. It's astonishing what your pride could be able to do. Bye
Witch I didn't respond too.
And other things.
Last thing she said was this
Her. You don't even say whatt you think, not even for things like this. It's astonishing what your pride could be able to do. Bye
Witch I didn't respond too.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Peaks&Valleys
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Boom. Nice job man.Jair213 said:
Think you may be getting a text in a week or two, in which, I wouldn't respond to either.
GotED?
Master Don Juan
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Too many recent threads on LDR so I am not going to sing my LDR soprano masterpiece again here.
Count your blessing you DID the dumping and get it over with.
Just Say NO to LDR.
All the worrying, trust issues, jealousy, possessiveness, loneliness, aloneliness, money wasted on phone calls/traveling, the despair of no hope to close the distance issue long term is ALL A MAJOR WASTE OF LIFE.
Be well
Exodus
Count your blessing you DID the dumping and get it over with.
Just Say NO to LDR.
All the worrying, trust issues, jealousy, possessiveness, loneliness, aloneliness, money wasted on phone calls/traveling, the despair of no hope to close the distance issue long term is ALL A MAJOR WASTE OF LIFE.
Be well
Exodus
goldengoose
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I really don't see any point to your advice. She lost interest, ignored him. is fighting with him, has another guy. Why should he wait to put up with 2 more weeks of that sh1t? Do you think it's going to get any better? Why should he reply to her texts when she ignores his? You want him to have 2 more weeks of that? Betas wait instead of getting out, she would of dumped him if he didn't end it. Some guys really need to grow a pair when initiating a break up. Don't get into LDR's either, it's a waste of time and money.Mauser96 said:
Jair213 said:
She didn't seem too broken up about it. That's good you got out before she ended it. That's what would of happened if you waited 2 more weeks.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.