Leprechaun2013
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She's banging the friend.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
need help .. fvcked tup bad
- Thread starter Jair213
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
RagingBalls
Senior Don Juan
Jair, it might not happen right now but she'll realize how selfish she had been for her action/reaction. She could've called you and not wait for your call/text. Where's her concern for you when all she did was wait? And now you are being "punished" for not living to her expectations regardless of what happens to you.
It's her way of holding you by the neck and it looks like you fall into that emotional trap.
All i know is, when your girl do that to you, you are not supposed to be worried, you are supposed to be disappointed by her actions, you might get a little mad about it too, because she only thinks about herself.
It's her way of holding you by the neck and it looks like you fall into that emotional trap.
All i know is, when your girl do that to you, you are not supposed to be worried, you are supposed to be disappointed by her actions, you might get a little mad about it too, because she only thinks about herself.
VikingKing
Banned
Man. You need to just let this go and move forward. Cut contact, just do it, action.
When you cut contact, she will come running, but it will be for ego validation.
When you cut contact, she will come running, but it will be for ego validation.
As you reminded us OP, it's a long distance relationship. So you're not getting regular sex with this girl, you're missing out on sex with other girls (assuming you're being faithful which I hope for your sake you're not) and clearly this girl has a princessy, spoiled personality
So what exactly are you getting from this relationship?
So what exactly are you getting from this relationship?
Jair213
Master Don Juan
Broke up with her. I told her that things weren't working out.
And other things.
Last thing she said was this
Her. You don't even say whatt you think, not even for things like this. It's astonishing what your pride could be able to do. Bye
Witch I didn't respond too.
And other things.
Last thing she said was this
Her. You don't even say whatt you think, not even for things like this. It's astonishing what your pride could be able to do. Bye
Witch I didn't respond too.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Peaks&Valleys
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Boom. Nice job man.Jair213 said:
Think you may be getting a text in a week or two, in which, I wouldn't respond to either.
GotED?
Master Don Juan
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Too many recent threads on LDR so I am not going to sing my LDR soprano masterpiece again here.
Count your blessing you DID the dumping and get it over with.
Just Say NO to LDR.
All the worrying, trust issues, jealousy, possessiveness, loneliness, aloneliness, money wasted on phone calls/traveling, the despair of no hope to close the distance issue long term is ALL A MAJOR WASTE OF LIFE.
Be well
Exodus
Count your blessing you DID the dumping and get it over with.
Just Say NO to LDR.
All the worrying, trust issues, jealousy, possessiveness, loneliness, aloneliness, money wasted on phone calls/traveling, the despair of no hope to close the distance issue long term is ALL A MAJOR WASTE OF LIFE.
Be well
Exodus
goldengoose
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I really don't see any point to your advice. She lost interest, ignored him. is fighting with him, has another guy. Why should he wait to put up with 2 more weeks of that sh1t? Do you think it's going to get any better? Why should he reply to her texts when she ignores his? You want him to have 2 more weeks of that? Betas wait instead of getting out, she would of dumped him if he didn't end it. Some guys really need to grow a pair when initiating a break up. Don't get into LDR's either, it's a waste of time and money.Mauser96 said:
Jair213 said:
She didn't seem too broken up about it. That's good you got out before she ended it. That's what would of happened if you waited 2 more weeks.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.