need help .. fvcked tup bad

[Leprechaun2013]

She's banging the friend.

 

[RagingBalls]

Jair, it might not happen right now but she'll realize how selfish she had been for her action/reaction. She could've called you and not wait for your call/text. Where's her concern for you when all she did was wait? And now you are being "punished" for not living to her expectations regardless of what happens to you.


It's her way of holding you by the neck and it looks like you fall into that emotional trap.

All i know is, when your girl do that to you, you are not supposed to be worried, you are supposed to be disappointed by her actions, you might get a little mad about it too, because she only thinks about herself.

 

[VikingKing]

Man. You need to just let this go and move forward. Cut contact, just do it, action.

When you cut contact, she will come running, but it will be for ego validation.

 

[Yo'Mama]

As you reminded us OP, it's a long distance relationship. So you're not getting regular sex with this girl, you're missing out on sex with other girls (assuming you're being faithful which I hope for your sake you're not) and clearly this girl has a princessy, spoiled personality

So what exactly are you getting from this relationship?

 

[Jair213]

Broke up with her. I told her that things weren't working out.
And other things.



Last thing she said was this

Her. You don't even say whatt you think, not even for things like this. It's astonishing what your pride could be able to do. Bye




Witch I didn't respond too.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

Broke up with her. I told her that things weren't working out.
And other things.



Last thing she said was this

Her. You don't even say whatt you think, not even for things like this. It's astonishing what your pride could be able to do. Bye




Witch I didn't respond too.

Boom. Nice job man.


Think you may be getting a text in a week or two, in which, I wouldn't respond to either.

 

[GotED?]

Too many recent threads on LDR so I am not going to sing my LDR soprano masterpiece again here.

Count your blessing you DID the dumping and get it over with.

Just Say NO to LDR.

All the worrying, trust issues, jealousy, possessiveness, loneliness, aloneliness, money wasted on phone calls/traveling, the despair of no hope to close the distance issue long term is ALL A MAJOR WASTE OF LIFE.


Be well

Exodus

 

[goldengoose]

Her behavior says she is:
a) losing interest and using this to start a fight/send signals to initiate a breakup

This is what I have often referred to as over-texting.........maybe it should be called "chasing by text"

Reply to her texts, but don't initiate. Give it two weeks of this, and if things haven't turned around?? Dump her and move on

I really don't see any point to your advice. She lost interest, ignored him. is fighting with him, has another guy. Why should he wait to put up with 2 more weeks of that sh1t? Do you think it's going to get any better? Why should he reply to her texts when she ignores his? You want him to have 2 more weeks of that? Betas wait instead of getting out, she would of dumped him if he didn't end it. Some guys really need to grow a pair when initiating a break up. Don't get into LDR's either, it's a waste of time and money.

Broke up with her. I told her that things weren't working out.
And other things.

Last thing she said was this

Her. You don't even say whatt you think, not even for things like this. It's astonishing what your pride could be able to do. Bye

Witch I didn't respond too.

She didn't seem too broken up about it. That's good you got out before she ended it. That's what would of happened if you waited 2 more weeks.

 

[Emi02Jill]

I ever meet such problem before, after the high recommendation of one of my good friends, I got a cell phones signal booster, everything is OK now. You can have a try!

 

[Yo'Mama]

I ever meet such problem before, after the high recommendation of one of my good friends, I got a cell phones signal booster, everything is OK now. You can have a try!

Wise words Emi! I think we can all learn something from that post.