"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Need Help Dancing 101

The Comeback Kid

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I'm back and in need of some help.

You see, my friends and I were talking about the Homecoming Dance that we have in a month and a half and the first thing that came to my mind (after remember ing last Homecoming was a nightmare)?

I can't dance/grind.

Now, I know there was one particular thread a while ago which greatly explained how to grind, but I couldn't even find the right one w/ the search feature.

Last year, when people wanted me to dance, I was thinking "#*&$#*$)#*$)@$#()*$)#*)#$" - it wasn't pretty.

So, I just need to know how to dance/grind effectively so I look like I atleast somewhat know what I'm doing.

Thanks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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OneArmDeeJay

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Check this out for Bumpin and Grindin - http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16349&highlight=Grind

However my advice to you is to learn how to dance first and get your rhythm down first before you start bumpin and grindin

So watch Hitch to learn how to dance.
Also Will Smith has a new song on his latest album for people like you. He tells you the simple steps to dance.

Its not hard. Just relax be lose but not too lose, smile and bounce to the rhythm. Just watch how other people around you dance. And for god sakes practice practice practice at home. Play some good music to dance to and practice. Stop stressin dancin aint hard.
 

The Comeback Kid

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Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay
Check this out for Bumpin and Grindin - http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16349&highlight=Grind

However my advice to you is to learn how to dance first and get your rhythm down first before you start bumpin and grindin

So watch Hitch to learn how to dance.
Also Will Smith has a new song on his latest album for people like you. He tells you the simple steps to dance.

Its not hard. Just relax be lose but not too lose, smile and bounce to the rhythm. Just watch how other people around you dance. And for god sakes practice practice practice at home. Play some good music to dance to and practice. Stop stressin dancin aint hard.
Thanks.

I saw Hitch a couple months ago...maybe I need to watch it again :rock:

I think, like you said, I just have to relax. Last year, I was so nervous it wasn't funny. There were some other things that occured that justified my nervousness, but that's a long story. I'll try to get it down by Homecoming...I may have to practice like Napoleon Dynamite. :crackup:
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What does 101 mean? Is it like "real important"crap or somthing?
 

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It's like college courses- the first course in the string is 101. So its like "Dancing for Beginners"
 

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I remember an excellent post a while back, can't remember by who though, that dealt with dancing. I'll see if I can find it.

*EDIT*

Okay I found it, but it is not quite what I remembered it to be. Use it as you will, though it doesn't go into grinding:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=15030
 

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Originally posted by NYC Dude
I remember an excellent post a while back, can't remember by who though, that dealt with dancing. I'll see if I can find it.

*EDIT*

Okay I found it, but it is not quite what I remembered it to be. Use it as you will, though it doesn't go into grinding:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=15030
I was the 1st one to reply to it... hahahahhahhaa YEARS AGO
 

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101 means from the bottom up. (learning)
I enjoy john travolta disco dancing :D

:rolleyes:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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