"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Need Help Dancing 101

The Comeback Kid

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I'm back and in need of some help.

You see, my friends and I were talking about the Homecoming Dance that we have in a month and a half and the first thing that came to my mind (after remember ing last Homecoming was a nightmare)?

I can't dance/grind.

Now, I know there was one particular thread a while ago which greatly explained how to grind, but I couldn't even find the right one w/ the search feature.

Last year, when people wanted me to dance, I was thinking "#*&$#*$)#*$)@$#()*$)#*)#$" - it wasn't pretty.

So, I just need to know how to dance/grind effectively so I look like I atleast somewhat know what I'm doing.

Thanks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Check this out for Bumpin and Grindin - http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16349&highlight=Grind

However my advice to you is to learn how to dance first and get your rhythm down first before you start bumpin and grindin

So watch Hitch to learn how to dance.
Also Will Smith has a new song on his latest album for people like you. He tells you the simple steps to dance.

Its not hard. Just relax be lose but not too lose, smile and bounce to the rhythm. Just watch how other people around you dance. And for god sakes practice practice practice at home. Play some good music to dance to and practice. Stop stressin dancin aint hard.
 

The Comeback Kid

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Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay
Check this out for Bumpin and Grindin - http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16349&highlight=Grind

However my advice to you is to learn how to dance first and get your rhythm down first before you start bumpin and grindin

So watch Hitch to learn how to dance.
Also Will Smith has a new song on his latest album for people like you. He tells you the simple steps to dance.

Its not hard. Just relax be lose but not too lose, smile and bounce to the rhythm. Just watch how other people around you dance. And for god sakes practice practice practice at home. Play some good music to dance to and practice. Stop stressin dancin aint hard.
Thanks.

I saw Hitch a couple months ago...maybe I need to watch it again :rock:

I think, like you said, I just have to relax. Last year, I was so nervous it wasn't funny. There were some other things that occured that justified my nervousness, but that's a long story. I'll try to get it down by Homecoming...I may have to practice like Napoleon Dynamite. :crackup:
 
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No shorthand means no shorthand.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What does 101 mean? Is it like "real important"crap or somthing?
 

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It's like college courses- the first course in the string is 101. So its like "Dancing for Beginners"
 

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I remember an excellent post a while back, can't remember by who though, that dealt with dancing. I'll see if I can find it.

*EDIT*

Okay I found it, but it is not quite what I remembered it to be. Use it as you will, though it doesn't go into grinding:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=15030
 

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Originally posted by NYC Dude
I remember an excellent post a while back, can't remember by who though, that dealt with dancing. I'll see if I can find it.

*EDIT*

Okay I found it, but it is not quite what I remembered it to be. Use it as you will, though it doesn't go into grinding:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=15030
I was the 1st one to reply to it... hahahahhahhaa YEARS AGO
 

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101 means from the bottom up. (learning)
I enjoy john travolta disco dancing :D

:rolleyes:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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