"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Need Help Dancing 101

The Comeback Kid

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I'm back and in need of some help.

You see, my friends and I were talking about the Homecoming Dance that we have in a month and a half and the first thing that came to my mind (after remember ing last Homecoming was a nightmare)?

I can't dance/grind.

Now, I know there was one particular thread a while ago which greatly explained how to grind, but I couldn't even find the right one w/ the search feature.

Last year, when people wanted me to dance, I was thinking "#*&$#*$)#*$)@$#()*$)#*)#$" - it wasn't pretty.

So, I just need to know how to dance/grind effectively so I look like I atleast somewhat know what I'm doing.

Thanks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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OneArmDeeJay

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Check this out for Bumpin and Grindin - http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16349&highlight=Grind

However my advice to you is to learn how to dance first and get your rhythm down first before you start bumpin and grindin

So watch Hitch to learn how to dance.
Also Will Smith has a new song on his latest album for people like you. He tells you the simple steps to dance.

Its not hard. Just relax be lose but not too lose, smile and bounce to the rhythm. Just watch how other people around you dance. And for god sakes practice practice practice at home. Play some good music to dance to and practice. Stop stressin dancin aint hard.
 

The Comeback Kid

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Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay
Check this out for Bumpin and Grindin - http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16349&highlight=Grind

However my advice to you is to learn how to dance first and get your rhythm down first before you start bumpin and grindin

So watch Hitch to learn how to dance.
Also Will Smith has a new song on his latest album for people like you. He tells you the simple steps to dance.

Its not hard. Just relax be lose but not too lose, smile and bounce to the rhythm. Just watch how other people around you dance. And for god sakes practice practice practice at home. Play some good music to dance to and practice. Stop stressin dancin aint hard.
Thanks.

I saw Hitch a couple months ago...maybe I need to watch it again :rock:

I think, like you said, I just have to relax. Last year, I was so nervous it wasn't funny. There were some other things that occured that justified my nervousness, but that's a long story. I'll try to get it down by Homecoming...I may have to practice like Napoleon Dynamite. :crackup:
 
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No shorthand means no shorthand.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What does 101 mean? Is it like "real important"crap or somthing?
 

StrangeButTrue

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It's like college courses- the first course in the string is 101. So its like "Dancing for Beginners"
 

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I remember an excellent post a while back, can't remember by who though, that dealt with dancing. I'll see if I can find it.

*EDIT*

Okay I found it, but it is not quite what I remembered it to be. Use it as you will, though it doesn't go into grinding:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=15030
 

AC/DC

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Originally posted by NYC Dude
I remember an excellent post a while back, can't remember by who though, that dealt with dancing. I'll see if I can find it.

*EDIT*

Okay I found it, but it is not quite what I remembered it to be. Use it as you will, though it doesn't go into grinding:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=15030
I was the 1st one to reply to it... hahahahhahhaa YEARS AGO
 

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101 means from the bottom up. (learning)
I enjoy john travolta disco dancing :D

:rolleyes:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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