“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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need help :d

Skooled303

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So i've had this best friend thats a chick for about a year. I am in love with her.


Rewind a bit..About 2 months ago we were at this party. She was really drunk and came onto me but I had another girl at the time so I pretty much rejected her. I told my best guy friend about it the next day.. and i'm still pissed at him for this but he told her that I was bragging about her coming onto me.


Ever since then she's been like untrusting/half disgusted with me and I truely am in love with her. I just don't know what to do. I like her so much..any advice on how to fix this please
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I've been in your position before, and I know you're not gonna take this advice probably, but truthfully, the safest thing is to "NEXT!" her and move on.

just talking about for your emotions here...
 

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Skooled303 said:
So i've had this best friend thats a chick for about a year. I am in love with her.
No you aren't.

Ever since then she's been like untrusting/half disgusted with me and I truely am in love with her. I just don't know what to do. I like her so much..any advice on how to fix this please
Read the DJ Bible (link at bottom of the page.) Read anything by David DeAngelo. Forget about her and date some other women.
 

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Not quite what I wanted to hear but it makes sense to move on.. Thanks guys.
 
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