"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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need help :d

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So i've had this best friend thats a chick for about a year. I am in love with her.


Rewind a bit..About 2 months ago we were at this party. She was really drunk and came onto me but I had another girl at the time so I pretty much rejected her. I told my best guy friend about it the next day.. and i'm still pissed at him for this but he told her that I was bragging about her coming onto me.


Ever since then she's been like untrusting/half disgusted with me and I truely am in love with her. I just don't know what to do. I like her so much..any advice on how to fix this please
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I've been in your position before, and I know you're not gonna take this advice probably, but truthfully, the safest thing is to "NEXT!" her and move on.

just talking about for your emotions here...
 
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Skooled303 said:
So i've had this best friend thats a chick for about a year. I am in love with her.
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No you aren't.

Ever since then she's been like untrusting/half disgusted with me and I truely am in love with her. I just don't know what to do. I like her so much..any advice on how to fix this please
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Read the DJ Bible (link at bottom of the page.) Read anything by David DeAngelo. Forget about her and date some other women.
 
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Not quite what I wanted to hear but it makes sense to move on.. Thanks guys.
 
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