"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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need help :d

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So i've had this best friend thats a chick for about a year. I am in love with her.


Rewind a bit..About 2 months ago we were at this party. She was really drunk and came onto me but I had another girl at the time so I pretty much rejected her. I told my best guy friend about it the next day.. and i'm still pissed at him for this but he told her that I was bragging about her coming onto me.


Ever since then she's been like untrusting/half disgusted with me and I truely am in love with her. I just don't know what to do. I like her so much..any advice on how to fix this please
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I've been in your position before, and I know you're not gonna take this advice probably, but truthfully, the safest thing is to "NEXT!" her and move on.

just talking about for your emotions here...
 
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Skooled303 said:
So i've had this best friend thats a chick for about a year. I am in love with her.
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No you aren't.

Ever since then she's been like untrusting/half disgusted with me and I truely am in love with her. I just don't know what to do. I like her so much..any advice on how to fix this please
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Read the DJ Bible (link at bottom of the page.) Read anything by David DeAngelo. Forget about her and date some other women.
 
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Not quite what I wanted to hear but it makes sense to move on.. Thanks guys.
 
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