"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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need help :d

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So i've had this best friend thats a chick for about a year. I am in love with her.


Rewind a bit..About 2 months ago we were at this party. She was really drunk and came onto me but I had another girl at the time so I pretty much rejected her. I told my best guy friend about it the next day.. and i'm still pissed at him for this but he told her that I was bragging about her coming onto me.


Ever since then she's been like untrusting/half disgusted with me and I truely am in love with her. I just don't know what to do. I like her so much..any advice on how to fix this please
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I've been in your position before, and I know you're not gonna take this advice probably, but truthfully, the safest thing is to "NEXT!" her and move on.

just talking about for your emotions here...
 
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Skooled303 said:
So i've had this best friend thats a chick for about a year. I am in love with her.
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No you aren't.

Ever since then she's been like untrusting/half disgusted with me and I truely am in love with her. I just don't know what to do. I like her so much..any advice on how to fix this please
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Read the DJ Bible (link at bottom of the page.) Read anything by David DeAngelo. Forget about her and date some other women.
 
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Not quite what I wanted to hear but it makes sense to move on.. Thanks guys.
 
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