"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Need help asking a girl out

Ser_Jacobin

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Ok so Im 17 and I have never had a girlfriend but there is this girl I like...shes amazing artist and into music like myself though I dont personally know her...I dont know what I would say or go about asking her out =/ I dont even know if she knows I exist...also Im extremly shy and Im afraid of getting hurt =/ it would be great if you guys could help out
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I would take a few months to actually sort your life out, get some hobbies and make yourself seem more interesting. Join a gym, lift weights it will definately boost your confidence...join a few clubs that you will enjoy, expand your social circle.
Read the DJ Bible.

After this, you should be ready to take your first steps.

Best of luck my friend...Please keep us updated!
 

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First you need to work on yourself. Try getting out of your comfort zone a bit by doing things that you usually wouldn't do, if you don't wanna be "shy", to build up your confidence.

Oh also adopt this belief. Being with me is the best thing that a woman can do. Just keep on saying it to yourself and the effects will happen immediately. This belif can help you out in many ways. One way that i could is... lets say you get rejected by her (I'm not saying that will happen, I'm no predictor of the future) you will realize that she is missing out because shes choosing not to be with the best possible choice.
A person without this belief would just break down and cry....

well there ya go heres some tools. its ur job to use um ~.^
 

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I do have hobbies...guitar, drawing, and artistic things and I have a decent amount of confidence as of late...Im happy with who I am its just my problem is I dont know how to approach her...I dont wanna seem creepy or anything
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Read the Bible....Start with THE BOOK OF POOK(Its a must)
 

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oh yeah I dont know if I should mention...Ive had this crush since the last quarter of last school year and I wouldnt be able to personally talk to her till a few weeks but I do know her myspace...itd be possible to send her a message but idk...maybe Im not a good risk taker
 

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DAMN THAT IS THE PROBLEM WITH EVERYONE!!! I KNOW!!!! EXEPT FOR A FEW PEOPLE. THEY ARE TOO DAMN NEGETIVE. be positive ~.^ it works trust me. Also keep this belif in your mind.

"It's always on"

-if she talks to you you know that shes interested.

-if she laughs with you, shes interested

-if she moves shes interested.

i use this to relive some of the stress put on me.



If your positive good things will happen.... Go try studying NLP it really really helps.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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neuro-languistic programming. it may take a while to learn, but it really helps. You could learn it all in about 30 days. If you watch one 2 hour seminar each day. What nlp does is it allows you can change your perspective of the world and the other peoples thinking pretty quickly. Some people that use this skill are hostage negotiators and pick up artists. But the thing is most people don't wanna spend 30 days learning it, and want a quick fix.
 

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so I was riding around on my bike and I happened to see this particular girl and I was passing by her I looked at her, smiled and managed to say hi and she returned the smile and said hi back...a small victory but a victory to me none the less to me
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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