"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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need help asap!!!!

saki

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yo what should I say to this **** to keep me a true dj? hurry need help right away, thanks


heres what she wrote:

you sound like a person i could not only get along with but enjoy i am never sure what to say in the first few messages but who does realy well if you would like drop me a note and say hello and anything elso you can think of at the time
thatgirl
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Grey Fox

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This sounds like one of those online dating things. Never the less its not about what I would say, its about what you feel you should say. Just don't be an AFC is all when you say it.

-Grey Fox
 

saki

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well I am over being an AFC, its just alot harder to get the girls on the net, there alot more picky and I dont know if I should just keep talking or say I have to go, esp when a girl says such positives things about me, im used to the stuck up chicks that i can freely ridicule (which they like, if I keep it light and nonpersonal) thanks though, Ill do my best : )
 

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She is testing you, show some balls and write what you want, you are a man.

No one here can tell what to respond to her , but we can tell you how to respond;)
 

disciple

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From my experience with the online thing, first, you need to get this girl on the phone as quickly as possible.

After you've made initial contact with a girl online and you've exchanged emails, you have to get her on the phone ASAP because girls, especially attractive girls, get literally hundreds of messages from guys on a regular basis (especially if she has a really hot picture).

If you don't get her on the phone quickly, you'll get lost in her mind with all the other guys.

Based on the message she sent you, this is what I would say to her, "What's up. I'd like to talk with you but I'm not really into emailing back and forth. I'm usually on the move coming in or going out somewhere so I don't always have time to sit at my computer but give me your number and I'll give you a call.

Now, by responding this way you are telling her a few of things.

1) I may want to talk to you and get to know you better but I already have an active, busy life so I don't really need you.

2) I'm not desperate.

3) I probably have other girls that are already occupying my attention and you have competition if you are really interested in me.

4) Give me your number and I'll give you a chance to earn a place in my harem of chicks.

5) I have a real life and don't have to sit at home all day emailing your a$$ back and forth.

6) I am probably a fun guy to be with and my life is probably very interesting and exciting.

If she is really interested, she'll respond with her number.

If she is bullsh*ting you or looking for some email pen pal, then most likely you won't hear from her again.

Either way, you'll know what the real deal is.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Discussion, forgoing a multitude of laughable things I could post otherwise.
 

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thanks for all the good info, diciple your the ****! I will take the advise about the email thing, it really is just a waste of time. From what Ive read on here, its all about action, not sitting in front of a computer screen. I would call her but im fvckin married, sucks, I need some new ass : \
 
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