"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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need help asap!!!!

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yo what should I say to this **** to keep me a true dj? hurry need help right away, thanks


heres what she wrote:

you sound like a person i could not only get along with but enjoy i am never sure what to say in the first few messages but who does realy well if you would like drop me a note and say hello and anything elso you can think of at the time
thatgirl
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Grey Fox

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This sounds like one of those online dating things. Never the less its not about what I would say, its about what you feel you should say. Just don't be an AFC is all when you say it.

-Grey Fox
 

saki

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well I am over being an AFC, its just alot harder to get the girls on the net, there alot more picky and I dont know if I should just keep talking or say I have to go, esp when a girl says such positives things about me, im used to the stuck up chicks that i can freely ridicule (which they like, if I keep it light and nonpersonal) thanks though, Ill do my best : )
 

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She is testing you, show some balls and write what you want, you are a man.

No one here can tell what to respond to her , but we can tell you how to respond;)
 

disciple

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From my experience with the online thing, first, you need to get this girl on the phone as quickly as possible.

After you've made initial contact with a girl online and you've exchanged emails, you have to get her on the phone ASAP because girls, especially attractive girls, get literally hundreds of messages from guys on a regular basis (especially if she has a really hot picture).

If you don't get her on the phone quickly, you'll get lost in her mind with all the other guys.

Based on the message she sent you, this is what I would say to her, "What's up. I'd like to talk with you but I'm not really into emailing back and forth. I'm usually on the move coming in or going out somewhere so I don't always have time to sit at my computer but give me your number and I'll give you a call.

Now, by responding this way you are telling her a few of things.

1) I may want to talk to you and get to know you better but I already have an active, busy life so I don't really need you.

2) I'm not desperate.

3) I probably have other girls that are already occupying my attention and you have competition if you are really interested in me.

4) Give me your number and I'll give you a chance to earn a place in my harem of chicks.

5) I have a real life and don't have to sit at home all day emailing your a$$ back and forth.

6) I am probably a fun guy to be with and my life is probably very interesting and exciting.

If she is really interested, she'll respond with her number.

If she is bullsh*ting you or looking for some email pen pal, then most likely you won't hear from her again.

Either way, you'll know what the real deal is.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Discussion, forgoing a multitude of laughable things I could post otherwise.
 

saki

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thanks for all the good info, diciple your the ****! I will take the advise about the email thing, it really is just a waste of time. From what Ive read on here, its all about action, not sitting in front of a computer screen. I would call her but im fvckin married, sucks, I need some new ass : \
 
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