"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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need girl help!

DoTheDew

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alright first off...hello everyone this is my first time here...so what up!! lol.

ok last friday i went to the pool with my roommate( i goto fsu) and i met this pretty/smart girl named bridget. we have similar majors which gave us something to talk about. so we talked for about an hour then my friend leaves saying he has to goto class so i sit there with her for alittle longer...everything is going well so far. then I ask her if she wants to get something to drink with me later and she said yeah that would be nice....so im like cool..then we walk together back to our apartment..hers is right across from mine...so i walk her over to hers and i asked her if she wanted to get together later and she said she had to hang out with her sister..i said alright well im going out of town for the weekend but ill back monday. the question is should I just go over there monday. or should i wait a while? and if you have any other suggestions please lets hear it! thanks everyone.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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skinnydart

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Don't go over there Monday, u don't want to sound to desperate. Since she knows you'll be back Monday, she might call/come over to your place. If she doesn't, wait until like Wednessday or something.

P.S. Brigit's are cool, just started dating one myself. :D
 

DoTheDew

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haha nice man! yeh they are pretty nice. I was thinkin that she might pay me a visit also being she lives so close. (walking distance) thanks for the help...anyone else have any idea's?? keep'em coming!
 

golf299

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i concur with skinnydart...
 

DJ_Dork

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...use...english...please...loser...

yeah go over to her for monday
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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