"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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need girl help!

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DoTheDew

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alright first off...hello everyone this is my first time here...so what up!! lol.

ok last friday i went to the pool with my roommate( i goto fsu) and i met this pretty/smart girl named bridget. we have similar majors which gave us something to talk about. so we talked for about an hour then my friend leaves saying he has to goto class so i sit there with her for alittle longer...everything is going well so far. then I ask her if she wants to get something to drink with me later and she said yeah that would be nice....so im like cool..then we walk together back to our apartment..hers is right across from mine...so i walk her over to hers and i asked her if she wanted to get together later and she said she had to hang out with her sister..i said alright well im going out of town for the weekend but ill back monday. the question is should I just go over there monday. or should i wait a while? and if you have any other suggestions please lets hear it! thanks everyone.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't go over there Monday, u don't want to sound to desperate. Since she knows you'll be back Monday, she might call/come over to your place. If she doesn't, wait until like Wednessday or something.

P.S. Brigit's are cool, just started dating one myself. :D
 
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DoTheDew

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haha nice man! yeh they are pretty nice. I was thinkin that she might pay me a visit also being she lives so close. (walking distance) thanks for the help...anyone else have any idea's?? keep'em coming!
 
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i concur with skinnydart...
 
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...use...english...please...loser...

yeah go over to her for monday
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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