"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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need girl help!

DoTheDew

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alright first off...hello everyone this is my first time here...so what up!! lol.

ok last friday i went to the pool with my roommate( i goto fsu) and i met this pretty/smart girl named bridget. we have similar majors which gave us something to talk about. so we talked for about an hour then my friend leaves saying he has to goto class so i sit there with her for alittle longer...everything is going well so far. then I ask her if she wants to get something to drink with me later and she said yeah that would be nice....so im like cool..then we walk together back to our apartment..hers is right across from mine...so i walk her over to hers and i asked her if she wanted to get together later and she said she had to hang out with her sister..i said alright well im going out of town for the weekend but ill back monday. the question is should I just go over there monday. or should i wait a while? and if you have any other suggestions please lets hear it! thanks everyone.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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skinnydart

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Don't go over there Monday, u don't want to sound to desperate. Since she knows you'll be back Monday, she might call/come over to your place. If she doesn't, wait until like Wednessday or something.

P.S. Brigit's are cool, just started dating one myself. :D
 

DoTheDew

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haha nice man! yeh they are pretty nice. I was thinkin that she might pay me a visit also being she lives so close. (walking distance) thanks for the help...anyone else have any idea's?? keep'em coming!
 

golf299

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i concur with skinnydart...
 

DJ_Dork

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...use...english...please...loser...

yeah go over to her for monday
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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