"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Need control, please help

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I have this problem with thinking, i'm always dwelling on things. let me explain

Whenever something happens to me, i get caught up in that situation, i keep thinking about over and over. It drives me crazy.

So where this fits into relationships and women.

As soon as i meet a girl that's nice to me and is pretty good looking. I keep thinking about her.

I know a few really good lookin single girls and i have their numbers, so i'll end up txting to them too much and getting too invovled.

I really don't know too many girls so i keep going back to those girls. I'm not old enough to go to clubs or bars so it's harder for me to meet women.

I need some control over this so i dont keep obsessing and driving myself crzy.

It's pretty pathedic, i know , please give me some advice.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yeah that's ultimatley what i need to do. But i need help on those steps getting there.
 
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My best advice to you man is to get more going on in your life. Not to be mean, but you seem like you have too much free time on your hands for your head to keep drifting back to these same girls.

Take up a martial art, a sport, a hobby or trade. I know others will agree with me that you need to get things going in your life and work on improving yourself before others will feel like you're worth their time. Not only will this give you other things to focus your attention on, but when you eventually start meeting more girls it'll give you a higher value to them (thanks mystery method!).

I know this seems counter-intuitive at first, but if you have things going on in your life as important to you as getting girls...the getting girls seems to take care of itself almost, haha.

Best of luck
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Get a freaking life that you are building for yourself, and so help me god, if you ever join another website and you give yourself the user name of "weeping rose", I will track you down and beat you with a pipe.
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LOL I haven't been here in a while and I just thought I'd drop in and see what things are like around here latlely...looks like not much has changed, same old negativity...so funny come check this out guys www.RSDNation.com this place is awsome for DonJuans who are ready to evolve. SoSuave is just a stepping stone.
 
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DonS said:
Get a freaking life that you are building for yourself, and so help me god, if you ever join another website and you give yourself the user name of "weeping rose", I will track you down and beat you with a pipe.
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Steady on mate, that aggressive tone is not helping anyone.

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LOL I haven't been here in a while and I just thought I'd drop in and see what things are like around here latlely...looks like not much has changed, same old negativity...so funny come check this out guys www.RSDNation.com this place is awsome for DonJuans who are ready to evolve. SoSuave is just a stepping stone.
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I'll have a look. Always nice to have some new reading material.
 
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sosilky said:
LOL I haven't been here in a while and I just thought I'd drop in and see what things are like around here latlely...looks like not much has changed, same old negativity...so funny come check this out guys www.RSDNation.com this place is awsome for DonJuans who are ready to evolve. SoSuave is just a stepping stone.
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Sup, sosilky? Ltns
 
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This happens because you believe in your mind that being in a relationship with women fulfill some deep emotional need.
One way is to be with a lot of women until you don't have this need anymore and another way is to be in relationships with women but at the same time to cut off all these emotional things.
Search in your mind for beliefs that are linked with having lots of women in your life and cut the links. Question the links between the cause and the effects and cut them.
 
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darkme_legendary said:
This happens because you believe in your mind that being in a relationship with women fulfill some deep emotional need.
One way is to be with a lot of women until you don't have this need anymore and another way is to be in relationships with women but at the same time to cut off all these emotional things.
Search in your mind for beliefs that are linked with having lots of women in your life and cut the links. Question the links between the cause and the effects and cut them.
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Thanks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sosilky said:
LOL I haven't been here in a while and I just thought I'd drop in and see what things are like around here latlely...looks like not much has changed, same old negativity...so funny come check this out guys www.RSDNation.com this place is awsome for DonJuans who are ready to evolve. SoSuave is just a stepping stone.
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yea they got an awesome board over there
 
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