"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Need control, please help

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I have this problem with thinking, i'm always dwelling on things. let me explain

Whenever something happens to me, i get caught up in that situation, i keep thinking about over and over. It drives me crazy.

So where this fits into relationships and women.

As soon as i meet a girl that's nice to me and is pretty good looking. I keep thinking about her.

I know a few really good lookin single girls and i have their numbers, so i'll end up txting to them too much and getting too invovled.

I really don't know too many girls so i keep going back to those girls. I'm not old enough to go to clubs or bars so it's harder for me to meet women.

I need some control over this so i dont keep obsessing and driving myself crzy.

It's pretty pathedic, i know , please give me some advice.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yeah that's ultimatley what i need to do. But i need help on those steps getting there.
 
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My best advice to you man is to get more going on in your life. Not to be mean, but you seem like you have too much free time on your hands for your head to keep drifting back to these same girls.

Take up a martial art, a sport, a hobby or trade. I know others will agree with me that you need to get things going in your life and work on improving yourself before others will feel like you're worth their time. Not only will this give you other things to focus your attention on, but when you eventually start meeting more girls it'll give you a higher value to them (thanks mystery method!).

I know this seems counter-intuitive at first, but if you have things going on in your life as important to you as getting girls...the getting girls seems to take care of itself almost, haha.

Best of luck
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Get a freaking life that you are building for yourself, and so help me god, if you ever join another website and you give yourself the user name of "weeping rose", I will track you down and beat you with a pipe.
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LOL I haven't been here in a while and I just thought I'd drop in and see what things are like around here latlely...looks like not much has changed, same old negativity...so funny come check this out guys www.RSDNation.com this place is awsome for DonJuans who are ready to evolve. SoSuave is just a stepping stone.
 
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DonS said:
Get a freaking life that you are building for yourself, and so help me god, if you ever join another website and you give yourself the user name of "weeping rose", I will track you down and beat you with a pipe.
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Steady on mate, that aggressive tone is not helping anyone.

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LOL I haven't been here in a while and I just thought I'd drop in and see what things are like around here latlely...looks like not much has changed, same old negativity...so funny come check this out guys www.RSDNation.com this place is awsome for DonJuans who are ready to evolve. SoSuave is just a stepping stone.
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I'll have a look. Always nice to have some new reading material.
 
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sosilky said:
LOL I haven't been here in a while and I just thought I'd drop in and see what things are like around here latlely...looks like not much has changed, same old negativity...so funny come check this out guys www.RSDNation.com this place is awsome for DonJuans who are ready to evolve. SoSuave is just a stepping stone.
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Sup, sosilky? Ltns
 
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This happens because you believe in your mind that being in a relationship with women fulfill some deep emotional need.
One way is to be with a lot of women until you don't have this need anymore and another way is to be in relationships with women but at the same time to cut off all these emotional things.
Search in your mind for beliefs that are linked with having lots of women in your life and cut the links. Question the links between the cause and the effects and cut them.
 
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darkme_legendary said:
This happens because you believe in your mind that being in a relationship with women fulfill some deep emotional need.
One way is to be with a lot of women until you don't have this need anymore and another way is to be in relationships with women but at the same time to cut off all these emotional things.
Search in your mind for beliefs that are linked with having lots of women in your life and cut the links. Question the links between the cause and the effects and cut them.
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Thanks
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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sosilky said:
LOL I haven't been here in a while and I just thought I'd drop in and see what things are like around here latlely...looks like not much has changed, same old negativity...so funny come check this out guys www.RSDNation.com this place is awsome for DonJuans who are ready to evolve. SoSuave is just a stepping stone.
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yea they got an awesome board over there
 
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