Need clever response.

[JackBauer24]

I messaged this girl on myspace just for the hell of it. Wasn't expecting a response, in fact, just assumed that she was going to be a difficult customer.

I message her with this:
hey,
i'm a fun, attractive guy that will make you laugh. probably out of your league, but i'm a nice guy, i'll give you a try.

She comes back with this:
Don't do me any favors....besides I am probably out of your league!!!!

Have no idea what to say next.

 

[muscleman]

Nothing dude. Let's start with basics:

1) "I'm a fun, attractive guy that will make you laugh". Why are you qualifying yourself to a total stranger. 0 confidence.

2) "probably out of your league". -100000 confidence.

3) "but I'm a nice guy" ... wtf?

4) "I'll give you a try" <-- what does this have to do with anything you just said?

It's like, you deprecate yourself and then try to raise your value by sounding all ****y in 1 sentence.

Square 1 man, read the DJB.

With regards to myspace, in my experience your pics are #1. Nothing else really matters. If she's attracted, you don't need to say anything more than "hey how are you". If she's not, writing a book won't even do anything.

 

[Alkali]

Hey muscles, let some of that blood flow to your brain. You misunderstood that last line, it was 100% AFC too. But hey, it works sometimes...Anyways, Jack, you set the conversation in the wrong direction, but it isn't beyond saving. Try something like:

"You're probably right, but you might be wrong...how about we find out?"

 

[JackBauer24]

well both of you are wrong. she, on her own, added me to her friends list.

 

[Create Reality]

lulz! that doesnt mean **** dude. myspace is how chicks let you sublimate your feelings for them, TO GET YOU OFF HER BACK! she's not interested.

 

[JackBauer24]

You guys talk a big talk with all your "AFC" b.s. but like me, you're also on a site about how to deal with women. You don't know what you're doing either, otherwise you'd never have found this site.

 

[muscleman]

Well then why are you asking us for advice if we're all lost and don't know anything?

You get 1 chance man, move along.

 

[T-Roy]

Hey dude. Like you just said you sent the message for the hell of it. The fact that you got a reply with out really trying must say something for you. So why not use that line that Alkali suggested.

 

[JackBauer24]

Troy, you're absolutely right. And sorry for lashing out.

This is indicative of a bigger problem: not being able to handle rejection of any kind, which is the reason I'm on myspace and not out on the field to begin with.

I take things way too personally. Any perceived rejection, let alone a real rejection, and I have a problem dealing with it. And it's something I have to get over if I expect to meet any women in person eventually.

 

[WaterTiger]

You're out of my league? I don't play league, I'm a free agent! Tell me what you got to offer before I'll come play with you!

 

[Alkali]

You guys talk a big talk with all your "AFC" b.s. but like me, you're also on a site about how to deal with women. You don't know what you're doing either, otherwise you'd never have found this site.

Ouch. My pride!

Don't be too sure about people on this site though. I know quite a few people (myself included) that have no problems in this department. We're here to help and be entertained.

Now others, *cough* El Stud *cough,* genuinely need help.

 

[muscleman]

Myspace is just another tool. You should still be out there gaming girls you find attractive anywhere and everywhere, but myspace can be SO ridiculously easy it's just dumb to pass up.

 

[Blackmm]

I messaged this girl on myspace just for the hell of it. Wasn't expecting a response, in fact, just assumed that she was going to be a difficult customer.

I message her with this:
hey,
i'm a fun, attractive guy that will make you laugh. probably out of your league, but i'm a nice guy, i'll give you a try.

She comes back with this:
Don't do me any favors....besides I am probably out of your league!!!!

Have no idea what to say next.

You: and the Emmy for best actress in a comedy or dramatic series goes to...

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Nothing dude. Let's start with basics:

1) "I'm a fun, attractive guy that will make you laugh". Why are you qualifying yourself to a total stranger. 0 confidence.

2) "probably out of your league". -100000 confidence.

3) "but I'm a nice guy" ... wtf?

4) "I'll give you a try" <-- what does this have to do with anything you just said?

It's like, you deprecate yourself and then try to raise your value by sounding all ****y in 1 sentence....

Bravo! I couldn't have said it any better.

 

[Hero]

jackbauer24, why don't you post the myspace link of the HB that is out of your league, so the other dj (ie. lukeskywalker) can game her?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

well both of you are wrong. she, on her own, added me to her friends list.

Dude, that is why most women are on MySpace, social proof. Or more specifically, "See how many people I have on my friends list, I must be someone special!!!"

 

[DavenJuan]

Dude, that is why most women are on MySpace, social proof. Or more specifically, "See how many people I have on my friends list, I must be someone special!!!"

DILDO...:crackup: I MEAN DIDDO

nothing less than social proof..1,674 friends..i mean c'mon

 

[JackBauer24]

That's the thing. If anything, I'm better looking than her. She has a nice body and nice hair, but her face looks like the comedian Jimmy Kimmel.

http://s213.photobucket.com/albums/cc305/Beckett20and7/