Lets say that Im a Catholic and theres a pretty girl i see. Unfortunately, theres people all around her and im in a place that disapproves teen relationships. What are some things I can say to her so I can get her number? Assuming shes attracted to me
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Need an opener in a tricky spot
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
"hi, how are you?"
don't used canned stuff, just be natural.
don't used canned stuff, just be natural.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
not the right attitude... ya don't need a girl's number.zack77766 said:
everybody has to start somewhere, start by saying hi and opening her up to u... then you can go for the number when you close. you usually don't want to ask for the number in the beginning because you'll most likely be rejected too soon.
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Say you'll call her and tell her the score of the ALCS if she gives you her number. 
I kid, I kid.
You can't get the number without talking to her first, and you can't just use a scripted conversation. Start with "Hi" and then just have fun. Make her laugh, small talk for a few minutes, and ask for her number.
I kid, I kid.
You can't get the number without talking to her first, and you can't just use a scripted conversation. Start with "Hi" and then just have fun. Make her laugh, small talk for a few minutes, and ask for her number.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.