Lets say that Im a Catholic and theres a pretty girl i see. Unfortunately, theres people all around her and im in a place that disapproves teen relationships. What are some things I can say to her so I can get her number? Assuming shes attracted to me
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Need an opener in a tricky spot
- Thread starter zack77766
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
"hi, how are you?"
don't used canned stuff, just be natural.
don't used canned stuff, just be natural.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
not the right attitude... ya don't need a girl's number.zack77766 said:
everybody has to start somewhere, start by saying hi and opening her up to u... then you can go for the number when you close. you usually don't want to ask for the number in the beginning because you'll most likely be rejected too soon.
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Say you'll call her and tell her the score of the ALCS if she gives you her number. 
I kid, I kid.
You can't get the number without talking to her first, and you can't just use a scripted conversation. Start with "Hi" and then just have fun. Make her laugh, small talk for a few minutes, and ask for her number.
I kid, I kid.
You can't get the number without talking to her first, and you can't just use a scripted conversation. Start with "Hi" and then just have fun. Make her laugh, small talk for a few minutes, and ask for her number.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.