Lets say that Im a Catholic and theres a pretty girl i see. Unfortunately, theres people all around her and im in a place that disapproves teen relationships. What are some things I can say to her so I can get her number? Assuming shes attracted to me
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Need an opener in a tricky spot
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
"hi, how are you?"
don't used canned stuff, just be natural.
don't used canned stuff, just be natural.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
not the right attitude... ya don't need a girl's number.zack77766 said:
everybody has to start somewhere, start by saying hi and opening her up to u... then you can go for the number when you close. you usually don't want to ask for the number in the beginning because you'll most likely be rejected too soon.
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Say you'll call her and tell her the score of the ALCS if she gives you her number. 
I kid, I kid.
You can't get the number without talking to her first, and you can't just use a scripted conversation. Start with "Hi" and then just have fun. Make her laugh, small talk for a few minutes, and ask for her number.
I kid, I kid.
You can't get the number without talking to her first, and you can't just use a scripted conversation. Start with "Hi" and then just have fun. Make her laugh, small talk for a few minutes, and ask for her number.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.