Need Advise: Should i Dump her ?

[brownjuan]

Iam 32 and dating a woman who is 28. We have been dating for about 4 months. Recently a friend of mine found out that she has an active online profile on okcupid and has been logging in frequently. I asked her about if she is dating other people. She said that she isn't seeing anyone but she checks her online profile now and then for funny messages.

Is this a sign that she has a foot out of the door and keeping her options open and being non committal.

 

[dustmuffin]

Iam 32 and dating a woman who is 28. We have been dating for about 4 months. Recently a friend of mine found out that she has an active online profile on okcupid and has been logging in frequently. I asked her about if she is dating other people. She said that she isn't seeing anyone but she checks her online profile now and then for funny messages.

Is this a sign that she has a foot out of the door and keeping her options open and being non committal.

Are you exclusive? If not why do you care? Read this thread....good advice...I think I would do a dumping if you are exclusive though..She is active...funny messages is BS.....

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/when-do-you-call-out-a-woman-on-her-bs.230343/

 

[El Payaso]

One of those funny messages will soon be a funny date followed by a funny one night stand followed by a funny dumping you.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I've never seen a thread on sosuave about a girl where everyone doesn't tell the OP to dump her.

But make it fair. Have an online profile yourself. And occasionally mention the funny messages you get.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Demote her to a **** buddy.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I just had a girl I've been dating for 2 months tell me she deleted her profile off the site we met on(I checked my old messages, its deleted) without me saying anything about it, because she wants to be with me. No woman who wants to be with you is going to keep an online profile.

OP, I hate to say this, but she is keeping you around until she finds a better option.

 

[Amilz]

It's distasteful if that were true. She's probably just using guys online for attention but all that's unlikely. She's more likely interested in others. I would tell her I wanted a break and quit talking to her for awhile or altogether.

 

[marmel75]

"Well, I can't really take you seriously when you still maintain an OLD profile, so I think I'm just going to move on. Take care."

 

[Yewki]

OP, I hate to say this, but she is keeping you around until she finds a better option.

Exactly this.

But let's play devil's advocate for a moment... suppose she really just keeps the account open for the laughs. She's a pretty insecure, sh*t stain of a person then.

Do not look for a LTR with this girl.

 

[soulforge]

Same here, been seeing a online girl, after 1 month of dating, she deleted her profile without me asking her to.

If she is on a dating site, then she is available buddy!!

This funny messages excuse os BS

She does not need to be on a dating site, to read funny messages!!

You have three choices.. ask her to come off

Demote her to fuk buddy

Or just dump her ass.. if you have developed feelings for her, then i would just dump her ass, fuk buddy would not workout.. good luck brah

 

[Alpheta]

I remember going on okcupid and seeing this 9/10 woman who was my age. Fast forward 3 months I see her in FB and she's got the engaged status up on her description. I go back on okcupid and she's still there online lol.

I messaged her telling her I know her fiancé and he won't be happy with this. Next thing you know her profile disappears lol.

Diry *****

 

[Yewki]

I remember going on okcupid and seeing this 9/10 woman who was my age. Fast forward 3 months I see her in FB and she's got the engaged status up on her description. I go back on okcupid and she's still there online lol.

I messaged her telling her I know her fiancé and he won't be happy with this. Next thing you know her profile disappears lol.

Diry *****

She probably rationalized to herself that keeping the profile up would be a harmless source of male attention and entertainment. But that's still messed up. It's not really any different than if an engaged woman walked into a club by herself dressed up all sexy and eye balling guys for attention... it's just wrong.

But the worst part is if the right guy had messaged her before she took the profile down... she prob would have gone for it. She would never admit it, but you know deep down she was thinking, "... never know, someone better could message me."