basically one of my better friends has liked this girl for 3 years and shes never been intrested in him as anything more than a friend. a couple nights ago we drinking and me and her fooled around. he found out from someone that was there and now hates my guts. i understand it was a **** move but she admits to being all over me and that i was just ****ed up and went along with it, but he dosn't even listen to me or her. ive tryed to help him get over he in the past but that never worked. so basically what the hell do i do?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Damian
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Look, if he's the kind of absolute AFC that will hold a girl on a pedestal like that, you can't really reason with him. Apparently, he's already staked a claim on something that he doesn't even have. His unhealthy obsession with this girl has him furious at you simply because you have gotten something that he hasn't. Disregard his irrational emotions because he is being immature and idiotic. If he really wants to sit down and talk, you don't need to justify yourself. Practice your Alpha tactics and reverse the roles. Make him justify his "staked claim" on a girl that he's known for three years but never had a relationship with. Question his dedication to YOU as a friend because he has unfair and immature standards. Be calm, in control, and diplomatic and you will be able to run circles around this guy.
-Damian
-Damian
i still havn't made a decision about this. so say i pick the girl then i get the rep of a guy who backstabbed one of his best friends for a girl and i mean its highschool it won't last, but the reputation will and i dunno. thanks for the advice though.