basically one of my better friends has liked this girl for 3 years and shes never been intrested in him as anything more than a friend. a couple nights ago we drinking and me and her fooled around. he found out from someone that was there and now hates my guts. i understand it was a **** move but she admits to being all over me and that i was just ****ed up and went along with it, but he dosn't even listen to me or her. ive tryed to help him get over he in the past but that never worked. so basically what the hell do i do?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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- Thread starter gdi
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Damian
Senior Don Juan
Look, if he's the kind of absolute AFC that will hold a girl on a pedestal like that, you can't really reason with him. Apparently, he's already staked a claim on something that he doesn't even have. His unhealthy obsession with this girl has him furious at you simply because you have gotten something that he hasn't. Disregard his irrational emotions because he is being immature and idiotic. If he really wants to sit down and talk, you don't need to justify yourself. Practice your Alpha tactics and reverse the roles. Make him justify his "staked claim" on a girl that he's known for three years but never had a relationship with. Question his dedication to YOU as a friend because he has unfair and immature standards. Be calm, in control, and diplomatic and you will be able to run circles around this guy.
-Damian
-Damian
i still havn't made a decision about this. so say i pick the girl then i get the rep of a guy who backstabbed one of his best friends for a girl and i mean its highschool it won't last, but the reputation will and i dunno. thanks for the advice though.