"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I recently hooked up with a girl i work with ( no sex yet), and we have hung out a couple of times. Her dad is actually one of my bosses....i do like her but i dont see a long term future with her. I dont want to fall into the boyfriend/girlfriend label. How do i keep this casual, so we can keep hanging and hooking up without shooting myself in the foot. I know the question is coming "what are we"? I could say i just got out of a LTR, or im just not ready for a relationship, but i feel that will end everything. How can i keep it casual??
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You want to screw about with your bosses' daughter? You might as well hand in your resignation letter now.
 
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ya don't go there Hockey Playa....keep her as a platonic friend at the absolute most.
 
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perseverance said:
You want to screw about with your bosses' daughter? You might as well hand in your resignation letter now.
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Be careful man.. Be careful!
 
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It's your choice. The best way to make a girl a FB is to escalate physically yet do not acknowledge relationship status.
Actually this can backfire sometimes, and the girl will beg you to have "relationship" with her. So maybe after the first night of sex, you propose marriage, and thus scare her away. This is high risk though if she accepts the marriage that is...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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First you see your feelings for her.
Second, check out her feelings for you.
Third, consider whether you want to threaten the job?
Do you really .. able to associate with it without you in love?
 
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he is not my boss, i do not work with him or report to him. He is has a very high senior position in my company, and connections, which may just be just as bad. LOL
 
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Hockey Playa said:
he is not my boss, i do not work with him or report to him. He is has a very high senior position in my company, and connections, which may just be just as bad. LOL
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Her dad is actually one of my bosses...
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That's what you typed in your opening post.
 
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