"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I recently hooked up with a girl i work with ( no sex yet), and we have hung out a couple of times. Her dad is actually one of my bosses....i do like her but i dont see a long term future with her. I dont want to fall into the boyfriend/girlfriend label. How do i keep this casual, so we can keep hanging and hooking up without shooting myself in the foot. I know the question is coming "what are we"? I could say i just got out of a LTR, or im just not ready for a relationship, but i feel that will end everything. How can i keep it casual??
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You want to screw about with your bosses' daughter? You might as well hand in your resignation letter now.
 
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ya don't go there Hockey Playa....keep her as a platonic friend at the absolute most.
 
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perseverance said:
You want to screw about with your bosses' daughter? You might as well hand in your resignation letter now.
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Be careful man.. Be careful!
 
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It's your choice. The best way to make a girl a FB is to escalate physically yet do not acknowledge relationship status.
Actually this can backfire sometimes, and the girl will beg you to have "relationship" with her. So maybe after the first night of sex, you propose marriage, and thus scare her away. This is high risk though if she accepts the marriage that is...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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First you see your feelings for her.
Second, check out her feelings for you.
Third, consider whether you want to threaten the job?
Do you really .. able to associate with it without you in love?
 
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he is not my boss, i do not work with him or report to him. He is has a very high senior position in my company, and connections, which may just be just as bad. LOL
 
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Hockey Playa said:
he is not my boss, i do not work with him or report to him. He is has a very high senior position in my company, and connections, which may just be just as bad. LOL
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Hockey Playa said:
Her dad is actually one of my bosses...
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That's what you typed in your opening post.
 
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