"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I recently hooked up with a girl i work with ( no sex yet), and we have hung out a couple of times. Her dad is actually one of my bosses....i do like her but i dont see a long term future with her. I dont want to fall into the boyfriend/girlfriend label. How do i keep this casual, so we can keep hanging and hooking up without shooting myself in the foot. I know the question is coming "what are we"? I could say i just got out of a LTR, or im just not ready for a relationship, but i feel that will end everything. How can i keep it casual??
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You want to screw about with your bosses' daughter? You might as well hand in your resignation letter now.
 
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ya don't go there Hockey Playa....keep her as a platonic friend at the absolute most.
 
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perseverance said:
You want to screw about with your bosses' daughter? You might as well hand in your resignation letter now.
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Be careful man.. Be careful!
 
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It's your choice. The best way to make a girl a FB is to escalate physically yet do not acknowledge relationship status.
Actually this can backfire sometimes, and the girl will beg you to have "relationship" with her. So maybe after the first night of sex, you propose marriage, and thus scare her away. This is high risk though if she accepts the marriage that is...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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First you see your feelings for her.
Second, check out her feelings for you.
Third, consider whether you want to threaten the job?
Do you really .. able to associate with it without you in love?
 
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he is not my boss, i do not work with him or report to him. He is has a very high senior position in my company, and connections, which may just be just as bad. LOL
 
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Hockey Playa said:
he is not my boss, i do not work with him or report to him. He is has a very high senior position in my company, and connections, which may just be just as bad. LOL
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Her dad is actually one of my bosses...
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That's what you typed in your opening post.
 
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