Took a girl out to lunch yesterday. Went well and I hugged her and said it was good seeing her and that I had to go (had a meeting). That was yesterday, so my questions is, since that was our first time meeting up, when should I call her? Should I send a text? Was going to call her tomorrow and ask her for Drinks Monday, She doesn't work weekdays and Sunday is Easter so I can't ask her for that. Should I send a text right now saying I had fun and I'll talk to her soon? What's the best way to go about this?
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Give it a few days then call, preferably on a weekday evening, small talk for a few mins then tell her to join you for an evening. And escalate this time around or else you'll become her friend.
If it goes to voicemail, then say you'll catch her at another time - the idea is to get her in person. If you call again some days after that and it goes to VM again, don't leave one and delete the number.
Don't text much if at all in the beginning, you can let up off that rule after you've done her.
If it goes to voicemail, then say you'll catch her at another time - the idea is to get her in person. If you call again some days after that and it goes to VM again, don't leave one and delete the number.
Don't text much if at all in the beginning, you can let up off that rule after you've done her.
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You rang her cell right, so she will see your missed call, and you are going to phone her again tomorrow and leave a message?Falcon25 said:
I would not phone her tomorrow, if she has any kind of interest level in you she would phone you back. The fact she missed your call in the first place and has not phoned you back yet is not a positive.
Kailex
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You did your part.Falcon25 said:
You called... you left a message...
If she never calls back, then you know what's up.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Hey Kailex,
When I called, I didn't leave a message. I just hung up. But I saw her last night at the club and she was pretty drunk and all over like ten dudes. I was hittin on a girl right next to her the entire time so that was good. After I saw her actions last night, I deleted the number and everything. Party girl and she's 28 yrs old. I don't need that. I'll sleep with her if I get a chance but I won't date her. Thanks to the three of you for your responses.
When I called, I didn't leave a message. I just hung up. But I saw her last night at the club and she was pretty drunk and all over like ten dudes. I was hittin on a girl right next to her the entire time so that was good. After I saw her actions last night, I deleted the number and everything. Party girl and she's 28 yrs old. I don't need that. I'll sleep with her if I get a chance but I won't date her. Thanks to the three of you for your responses.