"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Two years ago I met this girl, I liked her, she liked me.. (we were good friends too). Nothing happened between us because I never made the move (I was a real wuss/AFC back then). Some months later she got her self a boyfriend, so I cut communications with her after we graduated. This was last year.

Last month was my friends birthday (who went in the same class as me and her) so I knew SHE was coming too. I didn't care because I've "moved on."

When I came to the club it seemed like she was giving me some extra attention (IOI's), even my friends noticed this. She seemed really attracted to me. I acted like it didn't phase me. But I flirted with her, everything she said to me, I turned it into a joke and made her laugh, C&F style.

When I was not around her, she told my friend that she broke up with her boyfriend.. and ofcourse my homes told me this.

I never made a move on her that night because I wanted to remain a challenge (and also because of my pride).

Next Friday we are going out clubbin again and she will be there for sure.. I have to bust a move and take her digits that night.

Any thoughts from you guys, what should I do considering her IOI's n sh*t?
 

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Go with the flow man.

You can't go into these things with a game plan or wanting to over analyse.

You'll look insincere and fall flat on your face.
 
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Yeah I'ma go with the flow on this and get her digits
 
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snowdog said:
Sounds good man, really sounds you're on the right track.

But, as an advice; stop talking like 50 Cent and Snoop Dogg. It's getting old.
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fo shizzle ma nizzle :up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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