"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Two years ago I met this girl, I liked her, she liked me.. (we were good friends too). Nothing happened between us because I never made the move (I was a real wuss/AFC back then). Some months later she got her self a boyfriend, so I cut communications with her after we graduated. This was last year.

Last month was my friends birthday (who went in the same class as me and her) so I knew SHE was coming too. I didn't care because I've "moved on."

When I came to the club it seemed like she was giving me some extra attention (IOI's), even my friends noticed this. She seemed really attracted to me. I acted like it didn't phase me. But I flirted with her, everything she said to me, I turned it into a joke and made her laugh, C&F style.

When I was not around her, she told my friend that she broke up with her boyfriend.. and ofcourse my homes told me this.

I never made a move on her that night because I wanted to remain a challenge (and also because of my pride).

Next Friday we are going out clubbin again and she will be there for sure.. I have to bust a move and take her digits that night.

Any thoughts from you guys, what should I do considering her IOI's n sh*t?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Go with the flow man.

You can't go into these things with a game plan or wanting to over analyse.

You'll look insincere and fall flat on your face.
 

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Yeah I'ma go with the flow on this and get her digits
 

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snowdog said:
Sounds good man, really sounds you're on the right track.

But, as an advice; stop talking like 50 Cent and Snoop Dogg. It's getting old.
fo shizzle ma nizzle :up:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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