"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Two years ago I met this girl, I liked her, she liked me.. (we were good friends too). Nothing happened between us because I never made the move (I was a real wuss/AFC back then). Some months later she got her self a boyfriend, so I cut communications with her after we graduated. This was last year.

Last month was my friends birthday (who went in the same class as me and her) so I knew SHE was coming too. I didn't care because I've "moved on."

When I came to the club it seemed like she was giving me some extra attention (IOI's), even my friends noticed this. She seemed really attracted to me. I acted like it didn't phase me. But I flirted with her, everything she said to me, I turned it into a joke and made her laugh, C&F style.

When I was not around her, she told my friend that she broke up with her boyfriend.. and ofcourse my homes told me this.

I never made a move on her that night because I wanted to remain a challenge (and also because of my pride).

Next Friday we are going out clubbin again and she will be there for sure.. I have to bust a move and take her digits that night.

Any thoughts from you guys, what should I do considering her IOI's n sh*t?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Go with the flow man.

You can't go into these things with a game plan or wanting to over analyse.

You'll look insincere and fall flat on your face.
 
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Yeah I'ma go with the flow on this and get her digits
 
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snowdog said:
Sounds good man, really sounds you're on the right track.

But, as an advice; stop talking like 50 Cent and Snoop Dogg. It's getting old.
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fo shizzle ma nizzle :up:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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