"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Demon Wolf

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I met a chick in class, got her number, called her. She went to brazil last week. I know I should call her soon.

Meeting up for coffee or lunch is cool right? THing is I don't know a place in town that would be cheap and good for lunch. As for coffee I think asking her to meet me at a random starbucks sounds cheesy.

Any suggestions appreciated.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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russian2

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starbucks might actually be a good place to meet if everything else is too expensive.
 

Mavrick

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Meeting for coffee is perfect. You don't want to spend a lot of money on a girl you don't even know. Your job is not to impress her (e.g. with dinners and BS). You're job is to impress her by having her impress you. She hasn't earned an expensive meal from you yet.
 
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