"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Demon Wolf

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I met a chick in class, got her number, called her. She went to brazil last week. I know I should call her soon.

Meeting up for coffee or lunch is cool right? THing is I don't know a place in town that would be cheap and good for lunch. As for coffee I think asking her to meet me at a random starbucks sounds cheesy.

Any suggestions appreciated.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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russian2

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starbucks might actually be a good place to meet if everything else is too expensive.
 
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Mavrick

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Meeting for coffee is perfect. You don't want to spend a lot of money on a girl you don't even know. Your job is not to impress her (e.g. with dinners and BS). You're job is to impress her by having her impress you. She hasn't earned an expensive meal from you yet.
 
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