"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Demon Wolf

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I met a chick in class, got her number, called her. She went to brazil last week. I know I should call her soon.

Meeting up for coffee or lunch is cool right? THing is I don't know a place in town that would be cheap and good for lunch. As for coffee I think asking her to meet me at a random starbucks sounds cheesy.

Any suggestions appreciated.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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russian2

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starbucks might actually be a good place to meet if everything else is too expensive.
 
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Mavrick

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Meeting for coffee is perfect. You don't want to spend a lot of money on a girl you don't even know. Your job is not to impress her (e.g. with dinners and BS). You're job is to impress her by having her impress you. She hasn't earned an expensive meal from you yet.
 
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