"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Demon Wolf

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I met a chick in class, got her number, called her. She went to brazil last week. I know I should call her soon.

Meeting up for coffee or lunch is cool right? THing is I don't know a place in town that would be cheap and good for lunch. As for coffee I think asking her to meet me at a random starbucks sounds cheesy.

Any suggestions appreciated.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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russian2

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starbucks might actually be a good place to meet if everything else is too expensive.
 
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Mavrick

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Meeting for coffee is perfect. You don't want to spend a lot of money on a girl you don't even know. Your job is not to impress her (e.g. with dinners and BS). You're job is to impress her by having her impress you. She hasn't earned an expensive meal from you yet.
 
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