"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Need advice with a potential health concern...

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So this morning I was getting ready for a hot night of sex with my girl tonight, and was shaving my c&b, when it happened...I knicked this tiny little bump, and it bled for about 5-20 seconds, then stopped.

Am I still ok to have sex with her tonight or should I just tell her what happened, and wait for it to heal up? We haven't had sex yet, so I'm not worried about her getting disappointed or anything of that sort, and I know we will use a condom...or a few. I have a box ready to go. Please advise asap, as I am going to see my girlfriend in less than 2 hours from now. Thanks all!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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not sure you should really get medical advice from random shmucks on the 'net. Depends on a lot of things.
 
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It stopped bleeding immediately, and I don't see a knick or a scar anymore, but...damn man I want some pvssy tonight!
 
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I know I don't...and as far as she's concerned...well I don't think so. I don't even see a cut on it, and I have looked at that exact area with a magnifying glass too. Nothing. It just bled for a few seconds while I was in the shower...that's all.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No anąl.

Other orifices OK.
 
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