"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Need advice on sitation with a virgin

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So I've been on 3 dates with this 21yr old virgin. By all accounts she is a virgin and I can tell by the way she acts totally unexperienced. Well, about 3 weeks ago I had her in my apartment totally ready to bang, only problem was I had no rubber. I contemplated doing it in the rear only but that that would be a harsh introduction to sex lol. Anyway, she always mentions things like no strings attached and dont think im your gf by doing this. I say its fine with me and it really is. Only problem I have now is I can't get another shot with her alone. She has flaked twice already. I work with her and we hardly speak at work. She likes to text and has not really texted me the last 2 weeks. I am spinning two other plates at the moment, but damn I really wanna pop this girls cherry lol. Last time we text I set up a date to "hang out" and she had her sister work for her that day instead, lame. I dont know how to escalate things now that they have hit that point before sex. I thought it would be easy to get back to where things left off last, but its not. Any advice would help....
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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CarlitosWay

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=VAGO= said:
So I've been on 3 dates with this 21yr old virgin. By all accounts she is a virgin and I can tell by the way she acts totally unexperienced. Well, about 3 weeks ago I had her in my apartment totally ready to bang, only problem was I had no rubber. I contemplated doing it in the rear only but that that would be a harsh introduction to sex lol. Anyway, she always mentions things like no strings attached and dont think im your gf by doing this. I say its fine with me and it really is. Only problem I have now is I can't get another shot with her alone. She has flaked twice already. I work with her and we hardly speak at work. She likes to text and has not really texted me the last 2 weeks. I am spinning two other plates at the moment, but damn I really wanna pop this girls cherry lol. Last time we text I set up a date to "hang out" and she had her sister work for her that day instead, lame. I dont know how to escalate things now that they have hit that point before sex. I thought it would be easy to get back to where things left off last, but its not. Any advice would help....

Should have just PIIHB. Anyways...I think you didn't give her what she wanted and she is getting it from some one else now.
 

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How do you know she's a virgin?
 

=VAGO=

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real religous, conservative, doesn't know how to kisss....
 

2crudedudes

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=VAGO= said:
real religous, conservative, doesn't know how to kisss....
Eh, I've fvcked mothers who don't know how to fvck. I guess they were virgins too.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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teacha

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'innocent girls' are usually freaks.
 

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tobylikestennis said:
sounds like you missed your chance
Not the chance to learn something though. May this be a lesson.
 
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