"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So I've been on 3 dates with this 21yr old virgin. By all accounts she is a virgin and I can tell by the way she acts totally unexperienced. Well, about 3 weeks ago I had her in my apartment totally ready to bang, only problem was I had no rubber. I contemplated doing it in the rear only but that that would be a harsh introduction to sex lol. Anyway, she always mentions things like no strings attached and dont think im your gf by doing this. I say its fine with me and it really is. Only problem I have now is I can't get another shot with her alone. She has flaked twice already. I work with her and we hardly speak at work. She likes to text and has not really texted me the last 2 weeks. I am spinning two other plates at the moment, but damn I really wanna pop this girls cherry lol. Last time we text I set up a date to "hang out" and she had her sister work for her that day instead, lame. I dont know how to escalate things now that they have hit that point before sex. I thought it would be easy to get back to where things left off last, but its not. Any advice would help....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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=VAGO= said:
So I've been on 3 dates with this 21yr old virgin. By all accounts she is a virgin and I can tell by the way she acts totally unexperienced. Well, about 3 weeks ago I had her in my apartment totally ready to bang, only problem was I had no rubber. I contemplated doing it in the rear only but that that would be a harsh introduction to sex lol. Anyway, she always mentions things like no strings attached and dont think im your gf by doing this. I say its fine with me and it really is. Only problem I have now is I can't get another shot with her alone. She has flaked twice already. I work with her and we hardly speak at work. She likes to text and has not really texted me the last 2 weeks. I am spinning two other plates at the moment, but damn I really wanna pop this girls cherry lol. Last time we text I set up a date to "hang out" and she had her sister work for her that day instead, lame. I dont know how to escalate things now that they have hit that point before sex. I thought it would be easy to get back to where things left off last, but its not. Any advice would help....
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Should have just PIIHB. Anyways...I think you didn't give her what she wanted and she is getting it from some one else now.
 
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How do you know she's a virgin?
 
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real religous, conservative, doesn't know how to kisss....
 
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=VAGO= said:
real religous, conservative, doesn't know how to kisss....
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Eh, I've fvcked mothers who don't know how to fvck. I guess they were virgins too.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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'innocent girls' are usually freaks.
 
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tobylikestennis said:
sounds like you missed your chance
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Not the chance to learn something though. May this be a lesson.
 
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