"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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Hey guys,

This is my situation. So I am a tall guy, I have had chronic back pain from awhile which prevents me from going hard to the gym ( which I really would like to do ) and prevents me from living my life to the full extent that i can. It has gotten bad to the point where sitting for long periods of time at my job have become a real pain for me. I decided to try a chiropractor out in August which was a big mistake. My pain got much worse after the 4th visit to the point where I got anxiety. So now I have a mixture of anxiety and a chronic back pain that isn't going away. However, I have found a good doctor that is helping me get my life back on track because I have hit an all time low. I make decent money at my current job but I am thinking of quitting to fight this full on to become the best version of myself I can. I know that if I quit and focus totally on recovery that I can make a full recovery because it is only a muscular problem that I have.

In my situation would you guys quit the job and take on these problems head on? (Keep in mind I am only 21 years old, live with my parents and don't have many bills to pay and also have a back up part time job)
 

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Not sure we'd be able to give you any advice here. You're the only one that can assess your situation and all the risks and rewards involved.

That being said, health is wealth.
 
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thespecialist said:
In my situation would you guys quit the job and take on these problems head on? (Keep in mind I am only 21 years old, live with my parents and don't have many bills to pay and also have a back up part time job)
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Yes. Do it now while you have next to no responsibility binding you to your job, or you probably never will. Take advantage of the chance while your have the options
 
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kraytkiller said:
Yes. Do it now while you have next to no responsibility binding you to your job, or you probably never will. Take advantage of the chance while your have the options
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Thats exactly what I am thinking. I know I will easily get a job again, or I can just go to my second job when I feel better. This is also ruining my confidence which used to be sky high before all of this occurred.
 
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