"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Need advice on improving myself

thespecialist

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Hey guys,

This is my situation. So I am a tall guy, I have had chronic back pain from awhile which prevents me from going hard to the gym ( which I really would like to do ) and prevents me from living my life to the full extent that i can. It has gotten bad to the point where sitting for long periods of time at my job have become a real pain for me. I decided to try a chiropractor out in August which was a big mistake. My pain got much worse after the 4th visit to the point where I got anxiety. So now I have a mixture of anxiety and a chronic back pain that isn't going away. However, I have found a good doctor that is helping me get my life back on track because I have hit an all time low. I make decent money at my current job but I am thinking of quitting to fight this full on to become the best version of myself I can. I know that if I quit and focus totally on recovery that I can make a full recovery because it is only a muscular problem that I have.

In my situation would you guys quit the job and take on these problems head on? (Keep in mind I am only 21 years old, live with my parents and don't have many bills to pay and also have a back up part time job)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Trixx

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Not sure we'd be able to give you any advice here. You're the only one that can assess your situation and all the risks and rewards involved.

That being said, health is wealth.
 

kraytkiller

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thespecialist said:
In my situation would you guys quit the job and take on these problems head on? (Keep in mind I am only 21 years old, live with my parents and don't have many bills to pay and also have a back up part time job)

Yes. Do it now while you have next to no responsibility binding you to your job, or you probably never will. Take advantage of the chance while your have the options
 

thespecialist

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kraytkiller said:
Yes. Do it now while you have next to no responsibility binding you to your job, or you probably never will. Take advantage of the chance while your have the options
Thats exactly what I am thinking. I know I will easily get a job again, or I can just go to my second job when I feel better. This is also ruining my confidence which used to be sky high before all of this occurred.
 
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