"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Need advice on improving myself

thespecialist

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Hey guys,

This is my situation. So I am a tall guy, I have had chronic back pain from awhile which prevents me from going hard to the gym ( which I really would like to do ) and prevents me from living my life to the full extent that i can. It has gotten bad to the point where sitting for long periods of time at my job have become a real pain for me. I decided to try a chiropractor out in August which was a big mistake. My pain got much worse after the 4th visit to the point where I got anxiety. So now I have a mixture of anxiety and a chronic back pain that isn't going away. However, I have found a good doctor that is helping me get my life back on track because I have hit an all time low. I make decent money at my current job but I am thinking of quitting to fight this full on to become the best version of myself I can. I know that if I quit and focus totally on recovery that I can make a full recovery because it is only a muscular problem that I have.

In my situation would you guys quit the job and take on these problems head on? (Keep in mind I am only 21 years old, live with my parents and don't have many bills to pay and also have a back up part time job)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Trixx

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Not sure we'd be able to give you any advice here. You're the only one that can assess your situation and all the risks and rewards involved.

That being said, health is wealth.
 

kraytkiller

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thespecialist said:
In my situation would you guys quit the job and take on these problems head on? (Keep in mind I am only 21 years old, live with my parents and don't have many bills to pay and also have a back up part time job)

Yes. Do it now while you have next to no responsibility binding you to your job, or you probably never will. Take advantage of the chance while your have the options
 

thespecialist

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kraytkiller said:
Yes. Do it now while you have next to no responsibility binding you to your job, or you probably never will. Take advantage of the chance while your have the options
Thats exactly what I am thinking. I know I will easily get a job again, or I can just go to my second job when I feel better. This is also ruining my confidence which used to be sky high before all of this occurred.
 
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