"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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need advice on future rejections!

Wasabi_Master

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i went to a party and there was no one really good looking there (everyone was way older than me). All of a sudden this fat chick starts hitting on me, giving me ioi's, she was very aggressive. She asked me to dance and this and that, I told her i had a gf, i said anything so she would leave me alone, I walked away to go somewhere else and she came to me to continue talking and trying 2 get me to dance. In the end i bailed, and left the party.

Is there a good way to tell someone no ?
 

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Wasabi_Master said:
i went to a party and there was no one really good looking there (everyone was way older than me). All of a sudden this fat chick starts hitting on me, giving me ioi's, she was very aggressive. She asked me to dance and this and that, I told her i had a gf, i said anything so she would leave me alone, I walked away to go somewhere else and she came to me to continue talking and trying 2 get me to dance. In the end i bailed, and left the party.

Is there a good way to tell someone no ?
She just wanted to dance ffs..lol I get down with the big girls from time-to-time. Hell a good looking guy dancing with a fat or ugly chic even draws some attention (Remember that "How To Be A Player" movie with Bellamy? lol)

Next time just PIIHP and send her on her merry way.
 
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