"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i went to a party and there was no one really good looking there (everyone was way older than me). All of a sudden this fat chick starts hitting on me, giving me ioi's, she was very aggressive. She asked me to dance and this and that, I told her i had a gf, i said anything so she would leave me alone, I walked away to go somewhere else and she came to me to continue talking and trying 2 get me to dance. In the end i bailed, and left the party.

Is there a good way to tell someone no ?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wasabi_Master said:
i went to a party and there was no one really good looking there (everyone was way older than me). All of a sudden this fat chick starts hitting on me, giving me ioi's, she was very aggressive. She asked me to dance and this and that, I told her i had a gf, i said anything so she would leave me alone, I walked away to go somewhere else and she came to me to continue talking and trying 2 get me to dance. In the end i bailed, and left the party.

Is there a good way to tell someone no ?
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She just wanted to dance ffs..lol I get down with the big girls from time-to-time. Hell a good looking guy dancing with a fat or ugly chic even draws some attention (Remember that "How To Be A Player" movie with Bellamy? lol)

Next time just PIIHP and send her on her merry way.
 
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