"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i went to a party and there was no one really good looking there (everyone was way older than me). All of a sudden this fat chick starts hitting on me, giving me ioi's, she was very aggressive. She asked me to dance and this and that, I told her i had a gf, i said anything so she would leave me alone, I walked away to go somewhere else and she came to me to continue talking and trying 2 get me to dance. In the end i bailed, and left the party.

Is there a good way to tell someone no ?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Wasabi_Master said:
i went to a party and there was no one really good looking there (everyone was way older than me). All of a sudden this fat chick starts hitting on me, giving me ioi's, she was very aggressive. She asked me to dance and this and that, I told her i had a gf, i said anything so she would leave me alone, I walked away to go somewhere else and she came to me to continue talking and trying 2 get me to dance. In the end i bailed, and left the party.

Is there a good way to tell someone no ?
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She just wanted to dance ffs..lol I get down with the big girls from time-to-time. Hell a good looking guy dancing with a fat or ugly chic even draws some attention (Remember that "How To Be A Player" movie with Bellamy? lol)

Next time just PIIHP and send her on her merry way.
 
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