"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Need advice on contacting a girl you've begun seeing

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NewGuy72

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Hi, I'm fairly new to the site, have read a little but this is the first time I've posted.

I been talking to this one girl I'm into for a little bit now (less than a month). Last week she went away for a course and won't be back for another month or so. I know we're gonna talk while she's gone but should I contact her first or only contact her after she's tried to contact me. I'm not attached to this chick or anything, I'd just rather not give her the impression that I'm needy (which I'm not) and scare her away (which would be a shame since she's a cool girl with her **** together). Thanks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just send her a casual text/e-mail saying "Hey, hope everything is going well in [enter location here].

If you structure it that way, it doesn't appear needy, because it doesn't require a response. This is also good, because if she is interested, she will likely go out of her way to contact you back and let you know what is going on.
 
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the_professional said:
Just send her a casual text/e-mail saying "Hey, hope everything is going well in [enter location here].

If you structure it that way, it doesn't appear needy, because it doesn't require a response. This is also good, because if she is interested, she will likely go out of her way to contact you back and let you know what is going on.
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well I know she's interested, and she's already told me she'll contact me (probably by email since she doesn't have a phone there and can only get access to a computer once in a while). I just didn't know whether I should contact her before that.
 
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